Cohorts & Cadres
Life-changing consideration is best done in grace-centered community — meaning with real people and people who love without agenda, because they have been loved and redeemed by grace alone and not by any special goodness or special knowledge of their own making.
Modeled after Jesus own community of disciples, at Sideris we try to help you find this kind of community by inviting you into TWO alternating rhythms. While similar, each has it’s advantages:
“Cohorts”
Co-ed groups of 12
(meeting April-June & Sept-Dec)
“Cadres”
Men-only or Women-only groups of 4
(meeting Feb-Mar & July-Aug)
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Good question! Here we see a group of people who meet together regularly, but not simply due to their shared love of the beach; rather, they gather in joyful preparation for their shared mission of service and concern for all beach-lovers. Each individual matters and has a specific and unique calling/responsibility, but their participation in this team meeting is essential to the effectiveness in their personal mission.
In the same way, we have found that participation in Cohorts and Cadres help people recognize and engage the shared mission we have in common, while also preparing us and refreshing us as we are sent out to engage our personal missions throughout our city and world. It is the collective wisdom and collective encouragement we all need, so showing up consistently in these spaces is not just for me, but also for someone else who God knows needs my wisdom or support to continue on.
We train
by studying God's Word
We pray
for our city and each other
We encourage
in success and failure
We socialize
because laughter and fun is part of God’s good plan
We mobilize
to serve tangible needs of real people in our city
George and Ama are from Ghana. George moved to Seattle in 2022, and Ama joined him here in 2024. Ask us, we’re happy to chat about our exodus to Seattle.
Tim is from Denver, CO, and has been in Seattle since 2015, and Claire was raised in Woodinville. They each found Sideris through friends separately, then met and got married. They have two young boys and live north of Seattle. | Andrea is from Vancouver, WA, and has been in Seattle since 2008 when she moved to attend Seattle Pacific University. Ersen is from Orange County, CA (but he was born in Istanbul, Turkey) and they are both expecting their second child!
The van Herks have recently moved to Seattle and are passionate about community groups - it’s where their relationship began! They have a wonderful son named Jonathan (Gift from God) and together they love celebrating life over a good meal and fun games! | Ty-Lene recently moved here from Malaysia and is full of energy and joy. They meet in the Wallingford neighborhood and the group attendees hail from all around the city including Capitol Hill, Eastlake, Belltown, South Seattle, and beyond. They’d love to have you join
We have found that discussing God in community has been really helpful for spiritual growth. It gives us an opportunity to learn from one another and helps us develop a more complete picture of what God's word is saying. It's also very encouraging to hear how God is moving in each other's lives and gives us an opportunity to encourage and build up one another in Christ. We looking forward to considering all things Christ with our cohort family!
Scott & Claire met in high school in Chicago and knew they were meant to be. They moved to Seattle to attend Seattle Pacific University together, got married and have now been living in Seattle for over 10 years. They just bought a new home and are excited to use this blessing for real community and mission. They’d love to have you join them in this next session of cohorts.
Ryan & Christiana have been working and playing in Seattle for a little over 6 years now. They live just a few blocks from the Ballard Goodwill which means they are there all… the… time! They also love all the water play areas our city has to offer and often find themselves relaxing from work enjoying ice cream on the beach.
Jerin and Jillian both grew up in the Seattle area, and first met while volunteering together at an Easter church service in 2011. They got married in 2014, and have lived in Ballard ever since. They enjoy visiting Golden Gardens and the Ballard Locks with their 3 kids (Emery, Lucia and Naomi), and eating at Un Bien or Staple and Fancy. Lynn Wondergem is originally from Milwaukee, she moved to Seattle from Chicago in 2018. She found home at Sideris after a life-changing women’s retreat connected her with a vibrant faith community. She’s passionate about how God reveals His character through community—and she’ll never say no to a Fuji Bakery croissant in Lower Queen Anne.
Allie and Dave were both born and raised in the Seattle area and met in 2009 when Dave was promoting the Consider Concert. We dated while studying nursing (Allie) and theology (Dave) in Denver. We got married and then moved back to Seattle in 2013. They love to frequent Uneeda Burger and Pecado Bueno on Fremont Ave.
Kurt and Augusta have been worshipping with Sideris for over a decade - before they were engaged even. With three young kids they’d also consider themselves new parents because - let’s be honest parenting is a brand new adventure every day. As transplants to this area themselves, they love helping people find a new forever family through the community of Christ.
Amanda & Abi host a broad spectrum of working singles and couples from a variety of industries ranging from law, engineering, development, and finance to mental healthcare. They love Seattle and the outdoors! If you’ve never heard of Tangletown, don’t fret; it’s really just Wallingford with a twist. They’d love to invite you into this steady but spicy community at Sideris. Joshua is newly married to the lovely Lily, and they are both passionate about serving the lost & hurting in our community.
Our groups vary in size, ranging from 10-20 people. They commonly spend their time getting to know one another, having big conversations in group discussions, family-meals, social outings, prayer and very importantly: serving tangible needs in the city together.
Cohorts typically meet in homes, apartments, and backyards. While the group name typically aligns with the neighborhood where the group meets, don’t be alarmed if it is meeting elsewhere. They often start in one neighborhood and move as people move. Ask us first if walkability/bike-ability are important factors for you and we will find the nearest group at present.
Groups typically meet once a week for about two hours. In a given years we have three independent “sessions” lasting about 3 months each. We take a month break in-between those sessions so that people can easily transition in to and out of groups. A cohort is not meant to be a lifelong commitment but a 3-month commitment. Feel free to try new groups as life changes or the desire to meet new people grows.
Groups have freedom to study different topics, but most often they will align the discussion with the sermon series to help us all apply the Word to our lives. Occasionally groups will study a book, focus on particular thematic scripture topics, or use their time in other creative ways. If you are looking for something in particular we can help direct you to a group based on area of study.
Yes! Yes! Yes! Cohorts are not your classic bible study. They are closer to what you might call “missional communities.” We gather together for specific purposes to accomplish specific ends. Cohorts are our primary engine to drive tangible service to our city. Each group will pick an area to serve and do that together during a session. You will also find evenings of fellowship over a meal, social outings, and nights of prayer. Also, while most groups are co-ed, cohorts will often take specific nights to break off into men and women only times so that gender-nuanced prayer, conversation, and ministry can take place.
Yes and no. We tend to think of our groups as a coalition of people who live close to one another first. We believe the gospel compels us to be a diverse group of people in all ways, as we find Christ glorifying unity in Jesus alone. This of course has its positives and some drawbacks. It provides us with the opportunity to learn from people with different experiences and perspectives on life and ranging levels of spiritual maturity and experience with Jesus. This of course might limit the depth of conversations on any one particular life phase (ex: deep dive into parenting woes), so we encourage you to use the connections you make while in a mixed cohort to pursue one-one one or intimate relationships outside of the group. This way you get the best of both worlds. Having said all that, you will likely find that each group does have its own unique flavor and may or may not have the diversity we just mentioned. If you are looking for something in particular, we’d love to help you find a great fit! Just mention those desires when we reach out to you after signing up for cohorts.
Having said all that, you will likely find that each group does have its own unique flavor and may or may not have the diversity we just mentioned. If you are looking for something in particular, we’d love to help you find a great fit! Just mention those desires when we reach out to you after signing up for cohorts. And remember, there is nothing wring with trying a few groups before choosing a landing place.
All our cohort leaders have been through the family membership process. If you are interested in becoming a cohort leader you should start by filling out this leader application and one of the pastors will follow up. We will give you the training and support you need to grow toward that step.
Sign up online [click here] or email Ty-Lene @ tylene@siderischurch.com
Gender-specific groups of 4 people. This provides more air time and opportunities for people to share what is characterizing their relationship with Jesus Christ in a more intimate level.
Parks, coffee shops, breweries, restaurants, etc. Basically anywhere our in the city!
Once a week for 7 weeks. Timing is more flexible as this depends on your group! Group decides when to meet. This might be the same each week, or vary depending on cadres needs.
We like to break it down to 4 main points of what being in a cadre looks like:
Relational: space to practice the interdependency of church: “I need you and you need me.” Sharing, Encouragement, Prayer
Biblical: space to unpack takeaways, questions, action steps from sermons. Plus, look ahead to next week’s sermon text.
Renewal: space where God’s restorative and redemptive activity is pursued; growth through vulnerability
Missional: space as we bring God-talk into our city and encourage one another in our personal gospel-exalting endeavors.
Sign up online [click here] or email Ty-Lene @ tylene@siderischurch.com